About the Book – Losing Richard
A Story of Love, Loss, and the Unseen Strength of Caregiving
What happens when the person you love starts slipping away, even as they remain right in front of you? Losing Richard is a deeply personal and profoundly moving memoir by Julie Maxwell, chronicling the heartbreaking reality of loving a husband through the relentless grip of dementia.
“Cooking was the ultimate joy for him. Now he’s not the least bit interested in anything do to with it” (Reference from the book).
Richard was once vibrant creative, passionate and full of life. This world slowly started changing for him in gradual subtle changes before finally being replaced by undeniable signs of memory loss, confusion, and a growing psychological distance. Julie, his devoted wife and matched spouse, turned to being his caregiver while going through this painful journey of seeing her husband fade while he still holds the love between them.
But this story goes beyond losing Richard; it speaks to the capacity of love, the indomitable human spirit, and the grace found in some of life’s most difficult moments.
What You’ll Find Inside
The First Signs
Recognizing the early, often-overlooked changes that signal something isn’t right.
The Caregiver’s Journey
The emotional and physical challenges of becoming a caregiver to the person you love.
Moments of Grace
The unexpected beauty and fleeting moments of connection that keep love alive.
Love, Redefined
How dementia changes relationships but never erases love.
Julie's storytelling is raw, honest, and deeply relatable. Whether you are a caregiver, know someone affected by dementia, or simply want to understand the complexities of love and loss, Losing Richard offers a deeply touching perspective.
Why This Book Matters
Dementia is a silent thief—it takes memories, independence, and the very essence of a person. But in its wake, it leaves a story worth telling. Julie’s memoir provides comfort, understanding, and a reminder that even in the hardest moments, love persists.
This book is for:
✔ Caregivers seeking solace and validation
✔ Family members looking to understand the impact of dementia
✔ Anyone who has ever loved, lost, and found strength in the process
